Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Puppy puppy puppy

On the eve of receiving my 5th puppy to raise for CCI, I opened a particularly wonderful birthday present from Sherry - a plethora of dog books. This one, published in 2002,

has some wonderful vintage photos with meaningful quotes.
Here's the first of many I plan to share:

"Dogs are not our whole lives, but they make our lives whole."

It reminds me much of my mother, a consummate dog lover.

Guaranteed to make you smile!



Thank you, Patti, for putting this on your blog.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Today's adventure



Pam and I took a field trip to see the cows in La Jolla. There are 40 in all, I think we saw about 27. Each is a life size fiberglass bovine, painted by different artists. At the end of the exhibit, each cow will be auctioned off to benefit Rady Children's Hospital and the San Diego Zoo. You can see more info at this site: lajollacowparade.
There is a gallery of all the cows and their clever names.
Enjoy!
Oh, at the end of route, take a break at Harry's!

new fun



Thank you! I miss the peacock hair:-)

Monday, April 13, 2009

A lovely getaway

What a lovely treat, spending my birthday/Easter weekend in Catalina.  Rod had never been and it's probably been 40 some years since I'd been.   We spend Friday afternoon viewing the museum, hoping to find the plaque that commemorates his mom's aqua plane adventure. No such luck, but learned lots about the island.
Rod chose our hotel, The Metropole, from the fact that they had robes.  He knows that's my criteria for a good hotel.

This is the view from our balcony on Holy Saturday morning.
You can see the Wrigley mansion on the hill in the distance.  This is where we ate lunch.
Rod tending bar at the Wrigley mansion.
This could be Wyanne - is the name of the boat near here a predilection?
Not only did we see all manner of people, but all manner of dogs.
Love those prickly pear cactus hearts!
These next few photos are taken at the Wrigley Memorial and Botanical Gardens.
This is a bunny ear cactus.

Monday, April 6, 2009

Visiting America and the Adorable A's

Sweet, sweet puppies! Breezey's third litter, all lovely ladies.
They are half sisters to Wyanne.
Two are labbie looking, two are fluff balls and three are medium ruffly, fluffy. America, the hot pink beauty, is a medium and should be coming to our house April 16th.
Thank you, Cath, for your gracious hosting of our visit - such a privilege!

Thursday, April 2, 2009

The Pursuit of Happiness


Please follow this link thepursuitofhappines for a moving presentation on our freedom.

p.s. when Patti Digh speaks, I listen! Love being her facebook friend!

The Beauty in Austin





Derek, I almost think you could quit your day job you're such a phenomenal photographer!

Tomato Garden



maybe a little unconventional, but we're pretty excited to see what results we get.
you can see in this picture they're already turning up.

Deja vu



What a sweet day, subbing yesterday in first grade.
It was very special having Molly, aka Tricky, my very first pup I raised for CCI back in 2003, spend the day with us. She has a heart of gold!

12 Ways to use you camera as a tool

This is from photojojo

12 Ways to Use Your Camera as a Tool

Never leave the house without two things:

a Swiss Army knife, and
your camera.
Why the knife? Because it’s a multitasking tool that you can use a kajillion different ways.

Why a camera? For exactly the same reason.

We’ve rounded up so many alternate uses for your camera that you’ll start bringing it everywhere. Use it as a flashlight, a memory aid, or a mirror, and you’ll never let it leave your side again.

Your camera may be a toy, but there’s no reason it can’t also be a tool.

12 Ways to Use Your Camera as a Tool


1. MARK YOUR PARKING SPOT

Before you head out on a long trip, don’t bother rooting around for a pen to write down your parking space number. Take a photo of your parking spot so you can find it again when you come back.

2. USE IT INSTEAD OF A PRINTER

If you need to take directions with you, but don’t have a printer, take a picture of the computer screen instead. You can zoom in quite a lot, and will be able to read the directions on the camera’s monitor.

Also works for confirmation numbers, email addresses and incriminating online photos of friends and acquaintances.

3. REMEMBER FIDDLY DETAILS

You know the drill: you run out of something, you go to the store to replace it, and you realize you can’t remember which size or model number you need. Snap a photo before you throw the old one away and you’ll have it on you when you need it.

4. MARK YOUR PROPERTY

Take a photo of your name and address, and lock it on your memory card. That way, if you ever lose your camera, the person who finds it will know who it belongs to.

5. SHOPPING LISTS

Before heading out to buy ingredients for a project or recipe, take a picture of the ingredient list. Zoom in on the camera’s screen to be able to see each item on the list.

6. RETRACE YOUR STEPS

Take pictures of each step when you take something apart, so you’ll know how to put it back together later on. That way you won’t end up with those four screws and one unidentified twiddly bit that always seem to be left over after “fixing” something.

7. COLLECT EVIDENCE

Heaven forfend you get in a fender bender, but if you do, you’ll be glad you had a camera. Taking photos of the accident scene will help you remember details of what really happened, and it’ll make the insurance claim rigmarole a lot easier.

8. USE IT AS A MIRROR

Check your teeth for spinach when you don’t have a mirror. Or see how you look in really really dark sunglasses.

9. MAKE A WISHLIST

When you see a book at a friend’s place that you want to read, an album you want to get, or a gift you want to pick up for somebody, take a photo of it. That way you’ll have all the information you need when you finally get around to going shopping.

10. USE IT AS A FLASHLIGHT

If you get caught without a flashlight, use the flash or focusing light on your camera to help you see better.

Or, if you drop your keys behind the sofa, use the monitor on your camera to help you see into places you can’t quite reach.

11. REMEMBER PLACES YOU WANT TO GO

If you’re like us, you have a list of places you want to go, or restaurants you want to try, but when you find yourself with a free evening you draw a blank on where to go.

Taking pictures of places when you see them will remind you that there are loads of new places to try, so you won’t end up at the same restaurant every Friday night.

12. RECORD PHONE NUMBERS

Chances are it’s easier to find your camera in a bag full of stuff than it is to find a blank piece of paper and a pen that actually works.

Save yourself some time and snap a picture of that crucial phone number when you’re out apartment hunting, or when you see a flyer you don’t want to forget.

MORE IDEAS

If you’re looking for more tips on how to use your camera as a tool, check out this post at cockeyed.com!

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

No news is good news


Nothing's been heard about Wyanne, which is good, however, she surfaced in San Diego Lawyer's Magazine.
NIce job, Jennifer!

Thanks, Mr. Doody, for sharing this!

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

does absence really make the heart grow fonder?

I'm slowly returning back to the land of the living.
I had a wonderful time in Austin, photos to follow, but came home with a nasty cold bug. I've been taking Airborne daily for two and a half years and it's worked all that time, but it finally ran it's course. Fortunately I have a wonderful husband who made a stop at Milton's on the way home from the airport for their 'Jewish penicillin' chicken soup and that's sustained me for three days and here I am again.
I'm sorry if you checked looking for new news and there was none for too many days, but the brain's buzzing with projects. For now I'll just let you savor my wonderful fam and fram pics!




Thursday, March 19, 2009

Caprese Salad


Caprese Salad
Originally uploaded by mrsfishigator

cute, huh?


here's the link to her blog - she's got some other imaginative recipes: cupcake forest

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Times they are a changin'/bliss in Austin


This is sweet Lila playing on a very special quilt made by her Great Grandma Trudy and surrounded by the beautiful blanket knitted by Great Aunt Lynne. I hope she will always feel the love of her family.

This is the beautiful look on her face when she wakes up. No tears, just happy.

Always before all I could see when I looked at her was her handsome dad, now all I can see is her beautiful mom!

12 minus 1 layer cake


This doesn't look a thing like Bakerella's.
Tasted pretty good, but next time I would bake less cake sections for a shorter time and do my own frosting recipe.
Thank you, Derek, for cleaning up the mess I made on the stove!

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Jesuit Tin Whistle: Faith and Begorra!

I love following Ryan Duns Jesuit journey, but here's a little St. Patty's Day music which features him as a musician, not a priest.

What do we teach our children?

Thanks to Patti Digh for this:

Thanks to Juliana Cooper-Goldenberg for pointing me to this:


Each second we live is a new and unique moment of the
universe, a moment that will never be again. And what
do we teach our children? We teach them that two and
two make four, and that Paris is the capital of France.
When will we also teach them what they are?

We should say to each of them: Do you know what you are?
You are a marvel. You are unique. In all the years that
have passed, there has never been another child like you.
Your legs, your arms, your clever fingers, the way you
move.

You may become a Shakespeare, a Michelangelo, a Beethoven.
You have the capacity for anything. Yes, you are a marvel.
And when you grow up, can you then harm another who is,
like you, a marvel?

You must work, we must all work, to make the world worthy
of its children.
--Pablo Casals (1876-1973)

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Chicago's Frozen Shadows


Chicago's Frozen Shadows
Originally uploaded by mreioval

cool picture of Chicago. I even recognized it before I saw the title.
Still remember such a fun visit there in October.

Monday, March 9, 2009

oh my, oh my, oh my...




Everyone knows how much I love Pioneer Woman and her contests. I really didn't have any interest in entering the one for the visit to the lodge for time with Bakerella, however, when I saw the hello kitty pops that she made I did have to check out her site, Bakerella

I think the 14 layer cake is the coolest and doesn't really look that hard. I need an occasion to make one!

A productive Sunday

Helping Deidre get used to kids.
Thank you Collette, Garrett and Megan for being CCI puppy raiser assistants!



4 new crocheters I hope!




Rod's glorious bread.

Saturday, March 7, 2009

Books, books, books

I've been fortunate to attend a few meetings of the Lomas Santa Fe Book Club. I'm a total newbie, but after each meeting, we receive an updated list of all the books they've read thus far. It's quite an impressive list. You can see by the dates it's a long standing group.
I thought I'd share it with you, with some stars by ones I've particularly enjoyed in recent years. I didn't star all the ones I've read, partly because I didn't particularly like them or partly because I can't remember too much about them.
I'd love to hear from you if there are ones you particularly recommend that I may have missed.


LOMAS SANTA FE BOOK CLUB

List of Books Read

September 1997 – March 2009

1. The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn -- Mark Twain
2. Age of Innocence -- Edith Wharton
3. Ahab’s Wife -- Sena Jeter Naslund
4. The Alienist -- Caleb Carr
5. American Daughter -- Wendy Wesserstein
6. Angela’s Ashes -- Frank McCourt
7. ***Angle of Repose -- Wallace Stegner
8. Anna Karenina -- Leo Tolstoy
9. Atticus -- Ron Hansen
10. Beyond Belief -- V. S. Naipul
11. The Bluest Eye -- Toni Morrison
12. Body and Soul -- Frank Conroy
13. The Body Artist -- Don Delillo
14. The Bonesetter’s Daughter -- Amy Tan
15. The Book of Ruth -- Jane Hamilton
16. The Bookseller of Kabul -- Asne Seierstad
17. ***The Book Thief -- Markus Zusak
18. The Color of Water -- James McBride
19. The Corrections -- Jonathan Frazen
20. Crazy in Alabama -- Mark Childress
21. ***Crossing to Safety -- Wallace Stegner
22. Daughter of Fortune -- Isabelle Allende
23. Death Comes for the Archbishop -- Willa Cather
24. The Deep End of the Ocean -- Jacqueline Michard
25. Degree of Guilt -- Richard North Patterson
26. The Devil and the White City -- Erik Larson
27. Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood -- Rebecca Wells
28. Dreaming in Cuban -- Cristina Garcia
29. The Eight -- Katherine Neville
30. Ellen Foster -- Kaye Gibbons
31. *Empire Falls -- Richard Russo
32. Eventide -- Kent Haruf
33. The Falls -- Joyce Oates Carol
34. The Figeater -- Jody Shields
35. Finbar’s Hotel -- Dermott Bolger
36. A Fine Balance -- Rohinton Mistry
37. The Five People You meet In Heaven -- Mitch Albom
38. The Flanders Panel -- Arturo Perez-Reverte
39. Follow the River -- James Alexander Thom
40. Foreign Affairs -- Allison Lurie
41. Forever -- Pete Hamill
42. For Whom the Bell Tolls -- Ernest Hemingway
43. **The Girl With the Pearl Earring -- Tracy Chevalier
44. The Glass Palace -- Amilav Grjash
45. The Gold of Exodus -- H. B. Richard
46. The Good Earth -- Pearl S. Buck
47. A Great Deliverance -- Elizabeth George
48. The Great Gatsby -- F. Scott Fitzgerald
49. ***The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society -- Mary Ann Shaffer, Annie Barrows
50. The Hours -- Michael Cunningham
51. The House of Mirth -- Edith Wharton
52. House of Sand and Fog -- Andre Dubus III
53. I Am Charlotte Simmons -- Tom Wolfe
54. In America -- Susan Sontag
55. Innocent Traitor: A Novel of Lady Jane Grey -- Alison Weir
56. In the Time of Butterflies -- Julia Alvarez
57. Intruder In the Dust -- William Faulkner
58. The Jane Austen Book Club -- Karen Joy Fowler
59. John Adams -- David McCullough
60. Julius Caesar (The Play) -- William Shakespeare
61. The Killer Angels -- Michael Shaara
62. ***The Kite Runner -- Khaled Hosseini
63. Lady Chatterley’s Lover -- D. H. Lawrence
64. The Liars Club -- Mary Karr
65. The Life of Pi -- Yann Martel
66. Light in August -- Wm. Faulkner
67. Like Water For Chocolate -- Laura Espinnel
68. Lolita -- Vladimir Nabokov
69. Lone Survivor -- Marcus Luttrell with Patrick Robinson
70. The Loop -- Nicholas Evans
71. The Lost German Slave Girl -- John Bailey
72. The Lovely Bones -- Alice Siebold
73. Madame Bovary -- Gustave Flaubert
74. The Map of Love -- Andaf Soueif
75. March -- Geraldine Brooks
76. The March -- E.L. Doctorow
77. ***The Memory Keeper’s Daughter -- Kim Edwards
78. Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil -- John Berendt
79. ***Moloka’i -- Alan Brennert
80. Mornings on Horseback -- David McCullough
81. Mrs. Dalloway -- Virginia Woolf
82. My Antonio -- Willa Cather
83. My Cousin Rachel -- Daphne Du Maurier
84. My Year of Meats -- Ruth Ozeki
85. The No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency -- Alexander McCall Smith
86. The Optimist’s Daughter -- Eudora Welty
87. ***Peace Like A River -- Leif Enger
88. Personal History of Katherine Graham
89. ***The Pilot’s Wife -- Anita Shreve
90. Plainsong -- Kent Haruf
91. Poisonwood Bible -- Barbara Kingsolver
92. The Power of One -- Bryce Courtenay
93. Pope Joan -- Donna Woolfolk Cross
94. Prodigal Summer -- Barbara Kingsolver
95. Reading Lolita in Tehran -- Azar Nafisi
96. ***The Red Tent -- Anita Diamant
97. The River King -- Alice Hoffman
98. Sanctuary -- Wm. Faulkner
99. ***Seabiscuit -- Laura Hillenbrand
100. ***The Secret Life of Bees -- Sue Monk Kidd
101. The Shadow of the Wind -- Carlos Ruiz Zafón
102. The Shape of Snakes -- M. Walters
103. **Shipping News -- Anne Proulx
104. Sixteen Pleasures -- Robert Helenga
105. Skeletons on the Zahara -- Dean King
106. Small Island -- Andrea Levy
107. Snow Falling on Cedars -- David Guterson
108. ***Snow Flower and the Secret Fan -- Lisa See
109. Song of Solomon -- Toni Morrison
110. The Temple Dancer -- John Speed
111. ***A Thousand Splendid Suns -- Khaled Hosseini
112. These Is My Words -- Nancy E. Turner
113. A Thread of Grace -- Mary Doria Russell
114. T***hree Cups of Tea -- Greg Mortenson, David Oliver Relin
115. To Kill A Mockingbird -- Harper Lee
116. Transplanted Man -- Sanjay Nigam
117. Traveling Mercies -- Anne Lamott
118. The True and Outstanding Adventures of the Hunt Sisters -- Elizabeth Robinson
119. Tuesdays With Morrie -- Mitch Albom
120. ***Water for Elephants -- Sara Gruen
121. Welcome to the World Baby Girl -- Fannie Flag
122. The Whistling Season -- Ivan Doig
123. White Teeth -- Addie Smith
124. Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf -- Edward Albee
125. Wolf Totem -- Jiang Rong
126. A Year In Provence -- Peter Maille

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

How it feels to have a stroke

A Stroke of Genius



Some of you have heard me say that if I had it to do over again I'd do brain research. I'm fascinated by the workings of the brain.
I found this book to be an extraordinary read. Dr. Taylor, Harvard trained as a neuroanatomist, tells the story of her stroke when she was 37 years old. She begins with easy to understand descriptions of how the left side, 'doing', side of our brain works in tandem with our right side, the 'feeling' side.
Then she describes exactly what happened when her brain hemorrhaged, and the left, analytical, speaking, moving, side of her brain shuts down completely. She becomes what she calls a 'fluid', at one with the universe, no longer having or filling space. She lives in a nirvana state, totally in the moment, no longer hampered by the worrying, nagging side of the brain. Tempted as she was to stay in that state, she realizes how impossible the reality is and fights to get her whole brain back. The most interesting part though is now she can choose exactly the type of person she wants to be, shedding negativity and anxiety, by working only on the positive. It's years before she gains full mental faculties, but her success makes fascinating reading.

During much of the reading, Eckhart Tolle's manta, we can learn to live in the now, not in the agony of the past and future, shines through.

Hopefully some of you will read this and we can compare thoughts! I would highly recommend this book to anyone who knows someone who has a stroke. If it ever happens to me I hope my family will heed this and read it!
Also let it be known I want my brain to be donated to the Harvard Brain Bank!
Dr. Taylor is also know as the singin' scientist. She has written and sings this jingle:
1-800-BrainBank!
Oh, I am a brain banker,
Banking brains is what I do.
I am a brain banker,
Asking for a deposit from you!

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

keep those photos comin'!




Thanks to both Katie and Derek for giving me a close up of Lila's life!

Sunday, March 1, 2009

voila!



This might count as my greenie task for the day.
How simple is this?
Slip a photo upside down in a 'what shall I do with this jar', turn the jar over and voila! instant picture frame.

This tip is courtesy of photojojo

For dog-lovers

True or not, it's such a sweet story.

'Watch out! You nearly broad sided that car!' My father yelled at me.
'Can't you do anything right? ' Those words hurt worse than blows. I
turned my head toward the elderly man in the seat beside me, daring me
to challenge him. A lump rose in my throat as I averted my eyes. I
wasn't prepared for another battle.

'I saw the car, Dad. Please don't yell at me when I'm driving.' My
voice was measured and steady, sounding far calmer than I really felt.

Dad glared at me, then turned away and settled back. At home I left
Dad in front of the television and went outside to collect my
thoughts. Dark, heavy clouds hung in the air with a promise of rain.
The rumble of distant thunder seemed to echo my inner turmoil.

What could I do about him?

Dad had been a lumberjack in Washington and Oregon .. He had enjoyed
being outdoors and had reveled in pitting his strength against the
forces of nature. He had entered grueling lumberjack competitions, and
had placed often. The shelves in his house were filled with trophies
that attested to his prowess.

The years marched on relentlessly. The first time he couldn't lift a
heavy log, he joked about it; but later that same day I saw him
outside alone, straining to lift it. He became irritable whenever
anyone teased him about his advancing age, or when he couldn't do
something he had done as a younger man.

Four days after his sixty-seventh birthday, he had a heart attack. An
ambulance sped him to the hospital while a paramedic administered CPR
to keep blood and oxygen flowing. At the hospital, Dad was rushed into
an operating room. He was lucky; he survived.

But something inside Dad died. His zest for life was gone. He
obstinately refused to follow doctor's orders. Suggestions and offers
of help were turned aside with sarcasm and insults. The number of
visitors thinned, then finally stopped altogether. Dad was left alone.

My husband, Dick, and I asked Dad to come live with us on our small
farm. We hoped the fresh air and rustic atmosphere would help him
adjust. Within a week after he moved in, I regretted the invitation.
It seemed nothing was satisfactory. He criticized everything I did. I
became frustrated and moody. Soon I was taking my pent-up anger out on
Dick. We began to bicker and argue. Alarmed, Dick sought out our
pastor and explained the situation. The clergyman set up weekly
counseling appointments for us. At the close of each session he
prayed, asking God to soothe Dad's troubled mind. But the months wore
on and God was silent. Something had to be done and it was up to me to
do it.

The next day I sat down with the phone book and methodically called
each of the mental health clinics listed in the Yellow Pages. I
explained my problem to each of the sympathetic voices that answered.
In vain. Just when I was giving up hope, one of the voices suddenly
exclaimed, 'I just read something that might help you! Let me go get
the article.' I listened as she read. The article described a
remarkable study done at a nursing home. All of the patients were
under treatment for chronic depression. Yet their attitudes had
improved dramatically when they were given responsibility for a dog.

I drove to the animal shelter that afternoon. After I filled out a
questionnaire, a uniformed officer led me to the kennels. The odor of
disinfectant stung my nostrils as I moved down the row of pens. Each
contained five to seven dogs. Long-haired dogs, curly-haired dogs,
black dogs, spotted dogs all jumped up, trying to reach me. I studied
each one, but rejected one after the other for various reasons; too
big, too small, too much hair. As I neared the last pen a dog in the
shadows of the far corner struggled to his feet, walked to the front
of the run and sat down. It was a pointer, one of the dog world's
aristocrats. But this was a caricature of the breed. Years had etched
his face and muzzle with shades of gray. His hipbones jutted out in
lopsided triangles. But it was his eyes that caught and held my
attention. Calm and clear, they beheld me unwaveringly. I pointed to
the dog. 'Can you tell me about him?' The officer looked, then shook
his head in puzzlement. 'He's a funny one. Appeared out of nowhere
and sat in front of the gate. We brought him in, figuring someone
would be right down to claim him, that was two weeks ago and we've
heard nothing. His time is up tomorrow.' He gestured helplessly. As
the words sank in I turned to the man in horror. 'You mean you're
going to kill him?'
'Ma'am,' he said gently, 'that's our policy. We don't have room for
every unclaimed dog.'
I looked at the pointer again. The calm brown eyes awaited my
decision. 'I'll take him,' I said. I drove home with the dog on the
front seat beside me. When I reached the house I honked the horn
twice. I was helping my prize out of the car when Dad shuffled onto
the front porch.
'Ta-da! Look what I got for you, Dad!' I said excitedly.

Dad looked, then wrinkled his face in disgust. 'If I had wanted a dog
I would have gotten one. And I would have picked out a better specimen
than that bag of bones. Keep it! I don't want it!' Dad waved his arm
scornfully and turned back toward the house. Anger rose inside me. It
squeezed together my throat muscles and pounded into my temples.
'You'd better get used to him, Dad. He's staying!' Dad ignored me.
'Did you hear me, Dad?' I screamed. At those words Dad whirled
angrily, his hands clenched at his sides, his eyes narrowed and
blazing with hate. We stood glaring at each other like duelists, when
suddenly the pointer pulled free from my grasp. He wobbled toward my
dad and sat down in front of him. Then slowly, carefully, he raised
his paw. Dad's lower jaw trembled as he stared at the uplifted paw.
Confusion replaced the anger in his eyes. The pointer waited
patiently. Then Dad was on his knees hugging the animal. It was the
beginning of a warm and intimate friendship. Dad named the pointer
Cheyenne . Together he and Cheyenne explored the community. They spent
long hours walking down dusty lanes. They spent reflective moments on
the banks of streams, angling for tasty trout. They even started to
attend Sunday services together, Dad sitting in a pew and Cheyenne
lying quietly at his feet. Dad and Cheyenne were inseparable
throughout the next three years. Dad's bitterness faded, and he and
Cheyenne made many friends.

Then late one night I was startled to feel Cheyenne's cold nose
burrowing through our bed covers. He had never before come into our
bed room at night. I woke Dick, put on my robe and ran into my
father's room. Dad lay in his bed, his face serene. But his spirit had
left quietly sometime during the night. Two days later my shock and
grief deepened when I discovered Cheyenne lying dead beside Dad's bed.
I wrapped his still form in the rag rug he had slept on. As Dick and I
buried him near a favorite fishing hole, I silently thanked the dog
for the help he had given me in restoring Dad's peace of mind.

The morning of Dad's funeral dawned overcast and dreary. This day
looks like the way I feel, I thought, as I walked down the aisle to
the pews reserved for family. I was surprised to see the many friends
Dad and Cheyenne had made filling the church. The pastor began his
eulogy. It was a tribute to both Dad and the dog who had changed his
life. And then the pastor turned to Hebr ews 13:2. 'Be not forgetful
to entertain strangers.'

'I've often thanked God for sending that angel,' he said.

For me, the past dropped into place, completing a puzzle that I had
not seen before: the sympathetic voice that had just read the right
article.
Cheyenne 's unexpected appearance at the animal shelter, his calm
acceptance and complete devotion to my father, and the proximity of
their deaths. And suddenly I understood. I knew that God had answered
my prayers after all.

Life is too short for drama & petty things, so laugh hard, love truly
and forgive quickly. Live while you are alive! Tell the people you
love that you love them, at every opportunity. Forgive now those who
made you cry. You might not get a second time.

Thursday, February 26, 2009

I do love Lenore, the Hound of Love


Current animal count at Bedlam Farm for those who are confused:

Dogs: Lenore, Rose, Izzy.
Donkeys: Lulu, Fanny (Jeannette and Jesus gone to Vermont)
Poultry: Three hens. Winston died two months ago.
Sheep: 23 ewes, three weathers (Rumsfeld went today to Merck Forest, Vt.)
Cats: Two barn cats, Mother, Minnie.
Steers and cows: None. Elvis and Harold went to market, proceeds to a homeless shelter, Luna is pregnant and living in Poultney, Vt.

Coming this summer: lambs

40 Ways to Improve your Lent

from Parents in Prayer 
40 Ways to Improve Your Lent
By Brian T. Olszewski - Catholic Herald Staff
During Lent, the church instructs its members to make prayer, fasting and almsgiving integral parts of their
lives. For you who wish to supplement your spiritual diet, the Catholic Herald presents the following 40 options
in no particular order, as ways to help you experience a grace-filled Lent.
1. Learn about your patron saint.
2. Pray for — by name — people you don’t like and for people that don’t like you.
3. Participate in a healing service.
4. Read a Catholic magazine every time you visit the library.
5. March 19, in honor of St. Joseph, patron saint of carpenters and fathers, build or build upon a relationship
with one of your children.
6. Buy two of everything on your grocery list, and give the duplicates to the local food pantry.
7. Find out why you should have fun on Laetare Sunday, and then do so.
8. Start a “cuss bowl.” For every unkind word you utter, put in a dollar — two dollars during Holy Week. After
Easter, give the money to an English as a second language program.
9. Bring a “Baltimore Catechism” to a gathering of Catholic friends, and start asking each other questions.
10. Give away a material item you really value.
11. Pray for those, e.g., children, parents, spouse, siblings, who have left the church.
12. Talk to a neighbor you rarely or never talk to.
13. Keep a dish of ashes in a prominent place as a constant reminder of the season.
14. Receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation.
15. Test your knowledge of Scripture.
16. Read a biography about Archbishop Oscar Romero and/or watch the video “Romero.”
17. Open a Christmas Club account with the intention of giving the money to the Society of St. Vincent de Paul.
18. Visit a church when you don’t have to.
19. Reserve a button on your car stereo for the Relevant Radio station in your area.
20. Pray the news — for the people whose stories of hardship are reported daily and weekly.
21. Read an entry from a Catholic encyclopedia.
22. Attend Mass at a parish other than your own
23. Tithe your tax return.
24. If Catholic schools get NCAA tournament bids, learn for whom those schools were named.
25. Observe five minutes of silence every day.
26. Instead of watching “The Office”, watch “The Passion of the Christ.”
27. Use a Lenten theme in decorating part of a room.
28. Memorize a Proverb.
29. Participate in a faith formation presentation.
30. Tell someone your story(ies) of faith, how God has made a difference in your life.
31. Disconnect the TV and/or the computer.
32. Identify your God-given gifts, how you use them, and how you could use them better.
33. Fast from gossip.
34. Pull the rosary out of your drawer and say it. Too boring? Say the Scriptural rosary.
35. Remove your watch before leaving for church on Palm Sunday.
36. Develop a prayer list.
37. Read a history of the papacy.
38. Find out who Raamah, Putiel, and Uzzah are.
39. Sacrifice your time in order to help others.
40. In the words of St. Francis of Assisi, “Preach the Gospel at all times, and when necessary use words